1 O Lord, how many are my foes! Many are rising against me;
2 Many are saying to me, “There is no help for you in God.” (Selah)
3 But you, O Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, and the one who lifts up my head.
4 I cry aloud to the Lord, and he answers me from his holy hill. (Selah)
5 I lie down and sleep; I wake again, for the Lord sustains me.
6 I am not afraid of ten thousands of people who have set themselves against me all around.
7 Rise up, O Lord! Deliver me, O my God!
For you strike all my enemies on the cheek; you break the teeth of the wicked.
8 Deliverance belongs to the Lord; may your blessing be on your people! (Selah)
Psalm 3 (NRSV)
Psalm 3 is a psalm of David’s that he wrote while fleeing from his son Absalom. Fleeing for fear of his life.
In my study and quiet time lately I keep coming back to this Psalm. I think it speaks to me for a number of reasons. Specifically because right now I feel a little like David. Let me tell you what I mean.
In verses 1 & 2 we see David lamenting to God about all those that are against him. They are surrounding him and telling him that he’s all alone. That his plans are worthless and he should just give up.
I think about things that I’ve done recently…things I am doing right now…things I want to do. It seems like there’s always someone there to tell me why “it can’t be done”, why “it will never work”, or why it’s “too much change”.
David’s response though in verses 3 & 4 show us how to deal with the naysayers. You see, David KNOWS who is in control, who provides his strength and who he is doing all this for. David crys aloud to the Lord and the Lord answers him.
That’s what I need to remember as well. That when I feel like I can’t take it anymore, when I’ve heard one too many, “You’ll never be able to do that” or “you can try – but it will never work” that I can have the faith and confidence to turn to the Lord and that HE will shield me from all of it. That HE will give me the strength to do HIS work.
In verses 5 & 6 David knows he can go to sleep at night and wake up in the morning and that he doesn’t have to worry about anything or anyone – the Lord is there with him, sustaining him.
The New Living Translation says, “I lay down and slept. I woke up in safety, for the LORD was watching over me.” Reminds me of the old MAD Magazine character Alfred E. Newman’s slogan, “What, me worry?” Why should I worry about any of this when I know that the Lord is with me and watching over me.
Now, in verse 7 we see something that really hit me hard (no pun intended). David asks the Lord to strike his enemy on the cheek and break their teeth. He doesn’t say to strike them down, he doesn’t say to kill them…just break their teeth. It’s not that David wasn’t capable or killing…after all that’s kind of what got him into this mess in the first place. Rather than deal death to those speaking against him David wanted God to do one thing – shut them up.
For me this is huge. Negative words, attitudes and actions are huge. They can suck the life right out of me. I can be told I’m doing a great job, I can have people tell me they really felt God speak to them after a service, I can hear a bunch of other words of affirmation…but if I have one person come up and say something negative, THAT’S what I focus on…THAT’S what I remember.
I know it’s silly. I know that it shouldn’t bother me but it does. I do what I do to please God, not man…but I’m also human. So I think that David’s prayer here in verse 7 is a key for me. I know people are not going to like everything I do, everything I say or everything I plan. I’m not naive enough to think that. Do I wish that were the case? HECK YEAH! But it’s not and will never be. So that’s my prayer – that God would keep them quiet. Keep it to themselves. Now, let me just say that I really don’t want to see anyone’s teeth broken (but if God feels that’s what it takes who am I to argue). “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all” – I think that’s what David is asking God for here.
At the end of the day, the things that I do I am doing because I believe that it is what God wants me to do. It’s easy to get discouraged and listen to the people that are speaking against me but that just needs to be another reminder to me to just turn it over to the Lord. I said it last week, I said it this week and I will say it again – if what I am doing is God’s Will and is bathed in prayer it CAN NOT FAIL! If what I am doing is Jeff’s will it will fall on it’s face.
My desire is to reach people with the love of Christ and to help them come into a meaningful relationship with our Lord and Savior. As David says in verse 8, “May your blessing be on your people!”. That’s what it’s all about – God’s blessing on God’s people.
How about you? I would love to hear in the comments how you deal with this type of thing.